A lot of guys that want to improve their success with girls want to become an alpha male. You know him. The man that commands respect everywhere he goes. The man who always takes charge of a situation. The guy that catches the eye of every girl he runs across.
Some guys just act like jerks to other people to demonstrate “social proof. “ They take every little accomplishment as an opportunity to boast about their pathetic life.
These men are not doing the stuff you want to do to be an alpha male.
These men are not alpha males. They only prove how desperate they are for acceptance.
Real alpha guys don’t prove themselves to anyone. They do not waste time on other people’s opinions of them because they know what their life is about. They are out living their own life and do not put any importance on the vanity of if other people see them as “alpha.”
To become an alpha male, stop trying to impress other people and just do your own thing. Quit doing all that stupid stuff to try and prove yourself to others. Real alpha males do not have to prove anything to anyone but themselves.
Okay, now for the things you can use.
Begin by taking initiative in what you do. Instead of waiting for other people to decide things, try being the first to make a decision for them. It is not even important if you care that much about the decision. Just pick something. A lot of people just do not feel comfortable making decisions for other people and want someone else to do it. Plus you can avoid those ten minute “I don’t know, what do you want?” discussions. Taking command of a situation is simple, and most people will just blindly fall in line behind you.
You should additionally begin thinking about the big picture of your life. Ask yourself what you’re doing with your life and where you’re headed. Cultivate some serious beliefs. Don’t be scared to stand up for yourself when you need to defend those values. However, you should not be too eager to take things to blows or start an argument. Adopt the belief that you can solve things civilly but don’t shy away from defending yourself if someone pushes things too far. After getting this, you will automatically adopt alpha male behaviors. There is no reason to feel awkward and uptight when you know what you value most in life.
Quit pouring so much effort into becoming an “alpha male. Simply cultivate your own values and you’ll automatically become less uptight and more calm. The real alpha males do not put much importance on appearances so you should stop doing so as well.
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