You’ve been dumped. Maybe you deserved it; perhaps you did something regrettable. Maybe it was because the guy wanted to explore other options (aka date other girls). May be it happened, because you did not invest anything into the relationship and let it die. Whatever the reason you’ve emerged from your initial shock or denial and realized that you want this guy back. You now realized that despite of the facts that he is leaving the toothpaste tube open, he is wearing is sweaters since he was thirteen and his dependency on Mc Donalds food, he is still definitely adorable.

Stop crying. It’s time to start doing something and get that adorable man back. Follow these steps straight back to Datesville and happy times snuggling on the couch together. So how to get back your ex boyfriend?

1. Look the part. Remember when you first met? Or your first date? It probably didn’t involve sweatpants and yesterday’s makeup. Spend some time in self improvement. Trust me, confidence is super sexy. No self respecting man will find you desirable if he catches you with tissues stuck up your nose. Hit the salon, the spa or the gym. It is recommended to get a new look, new clothes, a new hairstyle to give your ex a reason to take another look.

2. Get your sales pitch together. It is recommended to write your profile in the same manner as if you had the intention to post it on a dating site. You will need to sell yourself, similar to a job interview. By making a listing of your attributes and taking inventory, you will have the chance to show your ex boyfriend what a great catch you are and why you should be together. There is no need to recite it later, but you will gain confidence and in addition get some talking points you can use.

3. You should be honest with yourself. So why aren’t you together at this moment? Did you stray? May be you let yourself get too complacent? Were you a nag? Did he cheat? Did he flip out because he’s commitment phobic? You cannot make a plan on how to get back together if you do not have an honest understanding of why your relationship did not work. Only then you have a good foundation to establish new ground rules, sincerely apologize with any hope of improving on the thngs that went wrong and agree to handle things differently.

4. Take this for granted: do not try any gimmicks. Trust me, having him see you in town with others having great fun or stalking him after his soccer training will not work. If this man is worth a second chance, then he deserves better than a lame attempt to fool him in to seeing you again. Give him a phone call. Tell you ex boyfriend that you spend a lot of time thinking and you know that he would want to hear what you have to say because the thoughts have value for both of you.

5. Say it right. Even if he is the one you did something really, really stupid, acknowledge share responsibility. Realize that compromise is mandatory. Make a plan to reconcile. Set boundaries. Expect success.

With a little effort and more work, you can get your ex-boyfriend back. Now put down the tissue and get moving!

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