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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …

Five Things To Stay Away From When Dating.

1. Competitive activity. A Date isn’t the time to compare yourself, your Ex-, your achievements, with his or hers.

2. Skill. Wanting to prove how good you are at being an enjoyable partner is too much work and it will show.

3. Chance. Recall that you wanted to be on this date. In the end, chance isn’t a factor.

4. Endurance. A date is not a contest to find out who will outlast the other in being entertaining and amusing.

5. Rules. Stone-set rules become the end for new possibilities.

Five Practices to Engage in While on a Date.

1. Play. Though these might sound simple, I will bet a lot of you don’t look at dating as a playful exercise. Remember a time when you were the innocent child playing in the sand? How perfect was that? No place to go, nothing to prove. Simply muddy fun! Look for ways to go into your date with having fun as a first priority. Even if your date is a serious type. Make it your game to look for fun. You don’t need to see him or her in the future if they can’t be easy-going and have fun. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly helpful for Relationship Attraction, and is not difficult to understand.

2. Laugh. A cousin of Play, laughing is the easiest infectious way to release joy. Prior to going on any date, especially a first date, tell yourself that you’ll meaningfully search for reasons to feel good and laugh. Smile a lot. At the waitress or waiter, at the host. Or put on a grin for no reason.

3. Listen. This is one of the most important ways to build a relationship with your date. Intentive listening means when you shut off the voices in your head and tune in to what the person on the other side of the table is saying. Of course, the critic in your head may be desiring to chime in for many reasons. You do not like the way he eats his soup. She’s always playing with her hair. Things like that can be distractions. Simply notice yourself being distracted and bring yourself back. Again, you don’t have to see them again if you do not desire to. This is an important practice, however, and it’s a building block for intimacy. You will want to use this practice in your extended relationship, so why not get your practice in now. Just so you know, you do not need to listen exclusively in the dating realm. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and increase your level of creative potential!

4. Eye Contact. Don’t simply make eye contact and bob your head. Engage in deep listening whilst maintaining eye contact. Practicing this is a wonderful display of your own generosity. And I can assure you, your generosity will return to you. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Having an unbiased listener to talk to can help you move off outdated patterns much more quickly.

5. Communicate. When it is your time to talk, strive for clarity and being heard. As you have given your time to your date, desire the same. You have not interrupted him or her while he or she has been talking. If an interruption happens, ask for the same manners. You can be polite and kind about it without causing it to be a problem. Simply kindly ask for what you want. Feeling confident in this takes a lot of pressure off your date. By doing this your date firmly knows what you prefer.

It does not matter if you’re 25 or 75 dating – simply like life – if approached as a fun game, one in which there are no losers, your date will go much more smoothly for everyone.