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It is a pity to know that some children do no have assurance in themselves and become total introverts. These people neither involve themselves in group activities nor have joyful times with their friends, because they do not have enough confidence in themselves for it. Apart from this they are not able to force themselves to partake in school activities owing to their shyness and this has a prolonged effect even after they grow up.

Building self esteem and confidence should start early and should happen when they are really small and it is the responsibility if the parent to do so. It is very important to nurture confidence and self assurance in children which will make them better citizens. So getting adapted to any kind of situation becomes easier for the children who have higher levels of self-esteem. Children who have this poise developed earlier in their childhood days can live a very confidant life during the later part of their life. So it is vital to inculcate this self confidence in them which will help them to enhance their self respect.

•    Like in any other issue alertness is the crucial factor to recognise the wants of your children. Loneliness is the main issue to day that makes the children vulnerable to insecurities in life. Many a times parents on their part miss out to really understand the thoughts of their children, so spending considerable time with them will enable you to be with them and also make you aware of what is going on in their life.

•    Have faith in your child.
In order to feed confidence in your child you should first have faith in what he could do and trust them. Scolding your child, humiliating them, criticizing them and comparing them with other children who are better than him doesn’t help and instead, loses your child’s confidence and lowers his self-esteem. A good parent should accept their child’s mistakes and encourage them to improve themselves. In a nice manner, point out to them his strengths and weaknesses as early as possible so that your child quickly shows improvement in his performance. At the same time, give your child positive reinforcement for doing a good job so that it helps instil his self-esteem that continues giving good performance.

•    Send your child to school.
Home is said to be the first learning place of your child, but it’s also the best thing to send her to a trusted school where children spend most of their time learning – be it in academics or extra-curricular activities.  It is also an environment where your child meets kids and plays with them and eventually develop peer bonding. Through peers, your children’s confidence can be influenced easily and it’s the teacher’s job to initiate them do good things and help instil confidence in them in the absence of the parents.

•    Training your kids to think on their own
Sometimes spoon feeding your children and depriving them to think on their own will not be of any use when it comes to the wholesome development of your children. Train your children to think and decide on their own. So children need to analyse and come out with solutions. If doe correctly they should be praised for it and if don wrongly they should be guided and helped through to come to a solution. This is a better when these things are done by the children themselves rather than instructing them to do. So this makes your child becomes an intelligent individual with lots of confidence.

•    Nobody is so great that they are bound to face a let down some time or other in life. So when your child is disappointed do not reproach your children instead train them to take it positively and learn from it and the try repeatedly until they succeed. So failure for the first time should make them try even more times until they succeed. So this way they learn that repeated practice makes them to achieve their target.
Parents should do what ever necessary to nuture self confidence in their children so that they can become better citizens. Being timid is always not the answer and it leads to failure in life.

Article by Craig Desmier of OutdoorSofa.com, a website with the largest selections of wicker outdoor sectional and outdoor sectional sofa for your household needs.