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Are you wasting nights wondering whether your relationship has hit the rocks, knotting your stomach each time he speaks in horror off those two words ‘it is over’? Totally understandable especially when you have grown comfy and don’t want to burst that make believe fairy bubble of you and him living joyfully ever after.

Regrettably the signs that it’s coming to an end are all there so you cannot numb yourself forever. Here are some breakup signs.

1) Time is one among many obvious breakup signs.  Where he spends his time speaks a lot about your relationship. If he doesn’t bang at your door anymore, avoids that cup of tea after work and generally ‘hustled’ becomes his most used by word, then you have a serious predicament. If he is the kind type or is too fearful to break up with you, then he will give you a date after a long period but don’t be amazed though when he leaves in haste.It may not be new work obligations but maybe, just maybe, someone else is taking your time.

2)Lack of communication is another of the plain breakup signs. A healthy relationship is founded on letting each other know whats happening. So if he doesn’t bother calling and he either doesn’t return yours or does so once in a blue moon then he may be losing his emotional connection in you and you could be headed for a break up. Leaving messages would not take to much from him would it?. If communication has expired or is disappearing this is one among many apparent breakup signs and if you do not turn the tide, you’re done for!

3) Funds do not move in your direction.As soon as the money stops coming in, it’s time to pack your bags. Obviously…your not interested in his money. Well, if that helps you close your eyes at night, but if he is not spending some of his money on you, he is spending it on someone else. Unless of course he is tight fisted who has never, even in the giddy initially days, used any money on you. But that is a completly different problem. We spend our money on the things that we love or care about so if he is not spending money on you then what does it say about how he feels about you.

4) He has new tastes. A symptom of a recent sway in his life. Out of the blue he enjoys the color pink for his shirts and ties although he until that time thought it was too feminine. He now takes hours at the mirror and has changed his cologne, this is one among many signs of a cheating husband/boyfriend. Just out of curiosity, when was the last time he wore that shirt that you got him for christmas? Don’t fret girl, a new love interest is running his clothing tastes.

5) He is playing wit games. You have blowouts over the tinyest things and lately anything seems to lead to a blow out, a great foreboder of a breakup. You walk on egg shells around him and any querries or remarks become an fight. He has temper flare ups and says nasty things! Watch out, he is shifting blame to stop himself feeling guilty.