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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist , writes… …

It is usually recommended to make actual space for a new relationship to show up in your life. That is, clean out a closet, and your baggage. Make your living space comfortable for coupling. And while that’s important, it is of even greater importance to make space emotionally.

Think of releasing as freeing yourself from the past. Imagine emotional release and releasing old habits of thought about relationships as forgiveness. You are creating energetic space for the wonderful, new, healthy, and perfect relationship to step into.

I can already tell a lot of you at this moment saying, “Yeah but, I don’t think he truly has to be allowed to be let go for his behavior. He was wrong and that’s the answer!” Watch the energy you are allowing to be cut off from your energy. This is a trickle in your energy capacity and over time, it will deplete your energy, if it hasn’t already. Furthermore, that slow energy leak holds you from having all of your energy focused in this current moment. When you don’t retain your energy in the moment, do you think you are going to be a powerful, meaningful creator? It makes it that much harder.

Take your real power back by releasing and letting go of your history, of self-judging that hold you down, muss up your energy field and block you from going forward to having the life you’ve always desired to live. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly helpful for Relationship Attraction, and it’s not hard to understand.

I find that the topic of forgiveness can be a loaded one. I’m not speaking of the type of forgiving where we’re excusing another person’s poor behavior. It’s important to have solid boundaries in place in your life. To understand how you feel about who you want in your life and who you don’t. How you desire to invest your time and with what people. It is essential to realize what functions well for you and what does not. The way you spend your time and energy and with what people, what feels good and what feels like an energy drain.

Forgiving isn’t a moral position. It is not about the correctness of any one thing. Forgiveness is releasing those pains, slights, abuses, losses, grudges, and creating space for what you DO desire to show up. Morality has nothing to do with forgiveness.

Do your very best at evaporating the past by releasing and forgiving yourself and others. This will give you a clean canvas on which to create your ideal love relationship.

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach , writes… …

Maybe you have heard of the ‘Bucket of Crab’ mentality. You know the kind of mindset that says “if I cannot have it, neither can you.” It is a form of invalidating someone else’s success by pulling them down to their inadequacy. It sometimes gets expressed by a friend or family member who does not approve of or doesn’t want you striving for a greater achievement or going beyond things that are usually the norm for a culture. Everyone’s been there.

It is the same in a tribal mentality. The tribe is used to serve and keep the culture in a sustained state of relative safety. Each member has an explicitly defined and extremely important role and function. If you wanted to go beyond (as is our very nature) you literally risked the safety of the tribe. You’re taught: “I cannot expand past what the tribe teaches, otherwise I would be cast out and experience certain death”. You’d be exiled and not given food or water and without another tribe for many miles.

However, you were designed to create. Your inherent nature is to go beyond, express, want, and manifest. Then go for another fun thing or dream to fulfill. I read that prior to reaching five years of age, they have been told the word ‘No’ over sixty thousand times! It seems that our nature and our cultural values are in conflict with each other.

It is no wonder conflicting beliefs, critical inner dialogue and fear of success haunt us most of the time. It has been battered into our programming. The psychological phenomena is known as cognitive dissonance. It’s like static from your head when you have many conflicting thoughts at the same time. This dissonance gets uncomfortable and wants a solution. It gets solved in one of two methods. Either by falling back on old, known beliefs, or by allowing yourself to let go of the old to strive for a new level. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you completely change your experience with expert life coaching.

It’s no wonder with the programming we have adopted that it can feel so hard to create any effective change. You see, it is not your fault. Do not feel bad and heap more negative judgements on yourself. You are not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are incredibly rewarding and fulfilling beyond your wildest dreams! Think of a partner who has every quality you have ever desired in a lover.

It is not your fault, but you owe it to yourself to grab your power back. You’ve always had the ability to choose who you are and control that. Your mind is attractive. And even more powerfully, your mental monologue in conjunction with emotion are creative and attractive. Stare the inhibiting programs in the face and boldly declare another possibility for yourself. You were meant to thrive and create. You have the confirmation by the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful as a result of the discovery of the Law of Attraction.

There has been a lot of talk over the last few years about the power of pheromones and how we should all be buying them out of a bottle from a perfume shop if we want to attract the opposite sex.  However, most of the information out there is complete rubbish and is pushed out my marketing and sales companies looking to get their hands on your cash. Below are three of the best real pieces of information you need to get your pheromones working hard for you.

Only your own work. You cannot buy a bottle of either someone else’s pheromone parfum or synthetic ones and expect them to work. The uniqueness of each pheromone comes about from the various physical and emotional states of everyone. If you cover yourself in someone else’s pheromones it will not be a match and the positive effects will not occur. Additionally, the effect of mixing two types of pheromone together (your and another persons) will only lead to a poor product

Don’t sweat it. Thinking that you are producing lots of attractive pheromones when your sweating more than ever is quite frankly dangerous. Although pheromones can be produced in the sweat glands, they are clearly different productions of the body.Bacteria in your sweat gives of that unpleasant odor, but many people still mistake this for pheromones, which do in fact have no smell of their own.

Deodorants mask pheromones.  A problem that a lot of people have is that they want to use their pheromones to attract others but don’t want to sweat or smell so cover their bodies in deodorant and perfume fragrances. Just after showering or bathing is when the skin gives off the maximum amount of pheromones. Thus, waiting a good 10-15 mins before sticking on your smelly products will give the skin time to cover itself fully. Also, try not to apply a strong or overpowering deodorant or perfume that masks your natural pheromone production