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If you suspect that your partner or spouse is not being faithful or is having an affair their are many methods that can be used to find out the truth. This article will cover some of the basics that anyone can do with know special equipment or training.

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The first thing that you should do is keep a detailed record of reported activities of your partner or spouse. Write down the times, dates, places, other people involved, excuses given, etc. Your notes will become invaluable as you compare what is said with phone bills, credit card statements, ATM withdrawals, talking to other people, etc. If confronted, a cheater will probably try to change their story. In fact, when confronted, they will probably try to question your memory, so be sure to keep extremely detailed records.

Keep track of all incoming phone calls. Record the phone numbers, and both date and time of the calls.

Go through the trash, his or her wallet, purse, pockets etc. when they are not around. If your partner is going to restaurants, bars, movies or anywhere else with their suspected lover there will be receipts and they will surely want to get rid of them. There is the possablity that he will be reckless placing them in the trash at home or hiding them. If you find anything that you are suspicious of or cannot explain save it as evidence or write down the details and put the receipt back where you found it so that he/she does not get suspicious. Your partner is already being secretive so do not let them know that you are suspicious of them or they will go to even greater lengths to cover their tracks.

Plan a surprise visit to work, or come home at unexpected times, or tell your partner that you have to work late, but then come home early, etc..

Keep track of your partner’s mileage, receipts, credit card statements, atm withdrawals (unaccounted for cash), phone records, etc.

If you can, check your Partner’s call log. Keep an eye out for a high number of phone calls to or from the same number. Keep in mind that cheating spouses often store their lover’s phone number under someone else’s name (a friend, a co-worker, etc.).

You should never confront your partner until you’re certain that you have enough evidence to make your case. And never reveal all of your evidence at once. When presented with evidence many cheating partners will make up a story that fits that evidence. But, if you withhold some evidence, and let your spouse/partner create a story, it gives you the opportunity to use the remaining evidence as leverage. By strategically withholding evidence, your spouse will start to question exactly how much you know, increasing the chance that he or she will tell the truth.

If anything out of the ordinary comes up don’t confront your spouse unless you have proof enough to force a confession.

Think for a minute about how your partner might try to dismiss your accusations (we were just joking around, I was just flirting, it was a misunderstanding, we are just friends, nothing happened, etc.). You can gather evidence ahead of time if you can predict what thier response to your aligations will be allowing you to counter what they say.

The important things to keep in mind are be thorough in finding evidence, take notes on any little thing, and save everything.

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Are you worried that your spouse is cheating on you? Usually if your suspicions are correct and they are having an affair, your spouse will be behaving differently in the following ways.

Less affection – this is an obvious sign to look out for. As soon as you notice a significant change in the amount of affection and love your spouse shows you, you can start to be concerned that a third party has entered the scene. If you feel the closeness disappearing for no reason you may have cause for concern. 
 
Fewer hugs and kisses, reduced interest in the bedroom department are all signs that their mind may be somewhere else. A lower tolerance of you will also point to their frustration at being with you rather than their new love. Their guilt and frustration may also lead to more arguments, less conversation and a general intolerance of you.
 
Pride In their appearance - if you observe your spouse suddenly changes the way they look by getting a new wardrobe fo clothes, or a new hairstyle, take more showers and wear new odours, you may again have cause for concern. If suddenly they start to dress to impress, it is most probably because they are indeed trying to impress someone they have met or would like to get to know better. Be concerned, especially if their affection towards you changes as well.
 
At home less - if they have started to find excuses for going out more, even for just short periods of time, you should start to be concerned, especially if they are also exhibiting the traits above! Finding reasons not to be at home, means there is obviously somewhere else they would rather be! Where do you think that may be?
 
Once you have your suspicions confirmed by their actions above, the next step is actually proving it! That can be easier said than done, and if you are not extremely careful, your detective work could end in disaster!

Learn more about how to catch a cheating spouse quickly here!