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You cannot open a magazine nowadays without reading new advice on relationships. Everyone has an opinion on the best action to take in different situations. The problem with most of the information available is that it does not apply to everyone and people need different solutions to their individual problems. The advice below is the real foundational points that should be adopted by all couples first if their relationship is to survive.Get these things right and the rest should follow without too much trouble.

Trust. If you cannot have faith in your partner, day to day life will be very difficult. You will always be worrying when they are away at conference venues etc, about what they are doing and who with? insecurities like this breads accusations and constant worry from both parties, which will never bring people closer together. Trust is not easy to give if you have been hurt before but think of it like this, if your partner is willing to hurt you by being unfaithful, are they the right person for you anyway?

Communication. Every couple has issues and country to popular belief, these are not what split people up, it’s actually the inability to deal with them and reach an understanding.If you don’t have the ability to share your inner feelings with your other half then your relationship is already dramatically weakened. The only way you can really understand others feelings is by sitting down with them and communicating maturely and patently. If this is not possible then you might need a mediator to sit in with you.

Love . Without love, being with someone and sharing so much with them can be a real strain.People drift apart without love as it is the relationship fabric that bonds people together through tough times. It is possible to fall back in love with someone and you don’t need to renew you vows at fabulous castle weddings to do so. You do however have to first like them as a person and find them attractive in some way, be it their looks or their personality.

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It is obvious that the way men and women approach relationship is different.  Nothing unusual there.  But it is useful relationship intelligence to understand a bit more about how men and women are lined up towards intimacy. You can get info on Relationship Help here.

Men don’t generally practice intimacy in the same way as women.  They don’t get much practice growing up at nurturing, empathizing, and being other focused.  It was not in their enculteration as children.

Yes, men know how to communicate in relationship, but the way in which we communicate is often different than females, it is usually oriented towards problem-solving (a form of winning), and establishing dominance (or avoiding it from others).

So men, speaking in large generalities here, know a lot about winning and losing, boundaries and control.  They may not know much about empathy and the value of nurturing others and focusing on the needs of others.

Growing up, boys play different games than girls.  Playing cowboys and Indians and playing army, boys learn about territory and dominance.  Nothing wrong with boys playing such games, it is actually good for them developmentally, but they don’t learn much about loving and empathizing and nurturing.  You can get more How To Get Love Relationship Advice here.

Girls played with dolls.  They played house.  They had imaginary tea parties.  These are games of nurturing and socializing.  Girls actually learn and play at intimacy growing up.  This is a powerful difference.  So given the different ways genders are socialized, when it comes to building intimacy, who has the most innate skill?

Would it be women, who learned from childhood how to love and nurture and socialize?  Or would it be men, who learned how to scream “I shot you, you’re dead!” 

Here’s the thing to take away from all this.  If you are a woman, dont just assume that men know what to do or how to get and stay close.  Don’t just get frustrated and want to give up.  Give them some guidance.  If you are a man, understand that it is useful at times to let women lead, to learn from them about how to connect and nurture and build intimacy.  You can learn more about getting your love back  here.