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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Best Selling Author, writes… …

I get asked questions about how to find love , the kind of love that lasts. I thought I’d share some of the frequently asked questions and the Universal Law of Attraction model answer.

1. I’m just about to give up on love. I’m in my mid-40’s. I’m afraid my time has passed.

If you can desire it, you can achieve it. Find out what belief you have, what story you’re telling yourself that’s not true and make it your business to shift that belief.

If you’ve been asking and it’s not been forthcoming, there’s only one reason. When you ask, and it’s not coming, you have a dominant belief or vibration about it being difficult. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. Look for whatever that limiting belief is and work with a coach to soften and shift that belief. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.

2. How can I know that I’m in the allowing mode? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. Build your belief muscles by pretending how wonderful it will be when your love shows up. Practice what it feels like to be in love. One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Every day, several times per day.

By the feeling state, I mean engaging all of the senses by imagining what it will be like when … … the love of your life comes to stay … you plan a fun weekend getaway for her … you giggle at the inside jokes you both share … you play games in the car on a long ride etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your vibration into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.

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Dating advice is abundant all over the web, in books, journals and on the television. There’s even an eight year old who wrote a book filled with great dating advise. That kid is pretty smart and must be really good with the girls, because while basic, all of his dating advise rings true. The important thing in dating is to do just that and not complicate things.

Leave your past in the past. There’s a reason it’s called the past. Anyone you get dating advise from will tell you that to have even one successful date, you need to dump all your baggage and start afresh. Boring your date with tales of ex’s misdeeds is a definite no-no. Sometimes it isn’t even necessary to talk, and a person who has been hurt once may be over suspicious of any new relationship and this could show in their attitude toward their date.

Dating advise pointer number 2, is to be yourself. Sure, people like to put their best foot forward, and impress their date, but if they aren’t their usual selves, not only would they feel uncomfortable, but their date would pick up on the vibes as well.

Another useful bit of dating advise is to manage your expectations. If you expect too much out of one date, or of the person you are dating, it’s bound to be disappointing. Even your date is just human, and first dates are notorious for disasters.

A frequently asked question is who foots the bill? The consensus in dating advise is that he who invites, pays. But there are politically correct people who are convinced that Dutch is the way to go every time. There’s another school of dating advise thought though, that suggests that the man is not a ‘gentleman’ if he doesn’t pick up the tab. In the case of a difference of policy between you and your date, come to a compromise that works for both of you.

Texting your date before meeting is also a good idea as it puts him or her at ease and allows you to discuss interests, hobbies in an informal and less tense environment than a first date would be. This can help you choose a setting for the date that you would both enjoy.

Basically, just remember, no matter how much dating advise you have, it’s all up to you in the end. If you get it wrong on the first date, you can always try again. If it still doesn’t work, there are always other people to date.