Do you know that feeling when you are out on a date with a girl and suddenly the feeling changes and you know you need to take things in a more physical direction, but you didn’t know how to kiss her in the right way or were nervous of blowing it?
This is a fairly common problem that most men will have to work through sooner or later. Actually, I used to suffer from the same problem. I would be able to get women to go out with me, but I could never seal the deal when it came time to take things physical.
First, if you are getting girls to date you and you think there might be something romantic there, then you are a lot farther along than a lot of men. You simply need to know how to kiss a girl.
The real issue is in your mind. You might be thinking “How do I know for certain if she is attracted to me?” or “What if she rejects me?”.
None of this really matters.
There are no proven means to know if a woman is in to you.
Instead of second-guessing yourself, just find out if she is the kind of girl you want in your life or not.
So you have to kiss her at a decent time like at the end of a date. After you get some experience with this you will just know that it is time to kiss. The situation will become thick and you will instinctively know it is time to kiss.
As you go in to kiss her, she will react in one of two ways.
First, the two of you will make out and engage in all sorts of saucy fun.
Or second, she turns you down. If this happens, you should be grateful! You just discovered that you do not need to waste any more time with this girl and can put your time to better use on other girls.
Simply say something cool such as, “Hey you can’t blame a guy for trying. ” or “Take it as a compliment. “ Then finish up the date fast. Treat her like she is just a friend and don’t let the situation turn weird.
From there, everything is in her hands. If she decides that she made the wrong choice, then leave it to her to call you. But let her initiate the first move. You, on the other hand, will be out spending time with other girls that are interested in you.
Here is a personal example of how to kiss a woman.
Last summer, I met up with a woman that I was really eager to go out with. Once every so often, you cross paths with a girl that just entirely stuns you. She was one of those girls.
I was just passing through town, so I took her out to lunch at my favorite restaurant. She invited me up to her apartment afterward to show me some art she was working on. We had a conversation and lounged on her sofa.
Then everything got quiet.
I knew I had to kiss her. I didn’t have any idea what would happen, but I went with it anyway. I gave the moment some time to linger, then I said, “I really want to kiss you.” Then I leaned and kissed the girl.
There was a little inital hesitation, but soon she just relaxed into it. Stay in control of the situation and don’t let up at the first sign of resistance. She will let you know if she doesn’t want to kiss. But be prepared for a little initial hesitation at first.
You should really stay on top of things while the two of you are making out. A lot of women will try to do what they are used to the first few times you make out. Be direct with your kissing and she will let go and adopt your style.
After that, I gazed into her eyes and told her “You have no idea how long I’ve wanted to do that. “ She seemed to like that and I proceeded to have a fun weekend with her.
So that is how you can kiss a woman the right way. Yes, it can be hard to put it all on the line and risk rejection, but that’s part of the fun.
If you liked this article, please also check out Guide to Kissing Girls, How to Flirt with Women, and Turning On Women
Mail this postThere isn’t a single man around who would not love to have the secret to getting a girl to fall for them quickly and easily, and would love to know how to approach a girl in a way that gets results. Wouldn’t it be nice if there was a book that was guaranteed to ensure that you knew clearly how to approach a girl with consistent positive results.
Well, that is not really the case (aside of our recommendation on the right) because finding the best ways to impress a girl really depends on the girl herself. That said, there are some very specific things you can do that almost all girls like that will utlimately help you get the girl, and keep her if that’s your desire.
The first thing that you have to remember is confidence, not cockiness. For whatever reason men seem to confuse the two and will often turn a girl off by being obnoxious rather than simply confident. What’s the difference between each of the two? Well, a guy who is obnoxious will address a girl in a term like baby, or babe. Some guys will go up to a table sit down and start talking – this is not really confidence but more like being both obnoxious and rude. If you want to put over confidence instead, then you should focus on approaching a girl whilst looking at her directly into her eyes. Introduce yourself and ask if you can join her, dance, etc. whatever the situation dictates. Understand it’s okay to perhaps put a gentle hand on her arm initially, but try to avoid rushing to put your arm around her or grabbing her hand to hold. Ease through suggestion, don’t pull. That is the guy who gets the girl!
If you want to be the guy who knows how to approach a girl in a way that gets results then after you have approached her and she is open to chatting to you, talk to her about her, when she asks about you share a little but don’t talk too much about yourself. Be clear – girls really like guys who make an effort to listen.
Try to work in a compliment about her eyes and lips. Get her to think about kissing, but don’t be crude. Look to compliment her with comments that relate specifically to her, like admire her smile or the way she laughs, that way your avoiding the obvious and cliche comments like “I think you’re hot”, and by being specific she knows you are focused on her.
OK, perhaps you aren’t they guy that always gets the girl (yet!), nevertheless is you start by treating a women like she is a person with feelings and not simply a prize to win over, you’ll be amazed how this simple concept will raise the amount of attention you get from women. She may not just come out with and openly say it but women generally want to know that you really want them. Find the right words and use them and before you know it, you will get the girl.
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