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Do you know that feeling when you are out on a date with a girl and suddenly the feeling changes and you know you need to take things in a more physical direction, but you didn’t know how to kiss her in the right way or were nervous of blowing it?

This is a fairly common problem that most men will have to work through sooner or later.  Actually, I used to suffer from the same problem.  I would be able to get women to go out with me, but I could never seal the deal when it came time to take things physical.

First, if you are getting girls to date you and you think there might be something romantic there, then you are a lot farther along than a lot of men.  You simply need to know how to kiss a girl.

The real issue is in your mind. You might be thinking “How do I know for certain if she is attracted to me?” or “What if she rejects me?”.

None of this really matters.

There are no proven means to know if a woman is in to you.

Instead of second-guessing yourself, just find out if she is the kind of girl you want in your life or not.

So you have to kiss her at a decent time like at the end of a date. After you get some experience with this you will just know that it is time to kiss. The situation will become thick and you will instinctively know it is time to kiss.

As you go in to kiss her, she will react in one of two ways.

First, the two of you will make out and engage in all sorts of saucy fun.

Or second, she turns you down. If this happens, you should be grateful!  You just discovered that you do not need to waste any more time with this girl and can put your time to better use on other girls.

Simply say something cool such as, “Hey you can’t blame a guy for trying. ” or “Take it as a compliment. “  Then finish up the date fast. Treat her like she is just a friend and don’t let the situation turn weird.

From there, everything is in her hands. If she decides that she made the wrong choice, then leave it to her to call you. But let her initiate the first move. You, on the other hand, will be out spending time with other girls that are interested in you.

Here is a personal example of how to kiss a woman.

Last summer, I met up with a woman that I was really eager to go out with. Once every so often, you cross paths with a girl that just entirely stuns you. She was one of those girls.

I was just passing through town, so I took her out to lunch at my favorite restaurant. She invited me up to her apartment afterward to show me some art she was working on. We had a conversation and lounged on her sofa.

Then everything got quiet.

I knew I had to kiss her. I didn’t have any idea what would happen, but I went with it anyway. I gave the moment some time to linger, then I said, “I really want to kiss you.”  Then I leaned and kissed the girl.

There was a little inital hesitation, but soon she just relaxed into it. Stay in control of the situation and don’t let up at the first sign of resistance. She will let you know if she doesn’t want to kiss. But be prepared for a little initial hesitation at first.

You should really stay on top of things while the two of you are making out. A lot of women will try to do what they are used to the first few times you make out. Be direct with your kissing and she will let go and adopt your style.

After that, I gazed into her eyes and told her “You have no idea how long I’ve wanted to do that. “  She seemed to like that and I proceeded to have a fun weekend with her.

So that is how you can kiss a woman the right way. Yes, it can be hard to put it all on the line and risk rejection, but that’s part of the fun.

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After spending some time together, you reach that point when it’s time to kiss a girl. Yet, it can be tricky because you really don’t want to risk getting rejected.

That makes total sense.

As a man, rejection is something that’s hard to deal with. Actually, scientists have discovered that part of our brain deals with both rejection and physical pain in exactly the same way. Therefore, when a man is rejected, from the brain’s point of view, it’s as if he’s been hurt physically.

However, if you know the right way to kiss a girl, you can definitely boost your confidence, be in total control, and avoid this pain altogether.

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Here are six factors to make you successful when kissing a girl:

1) Gauge The Situation

A famous quote states that “There’s no truth without context. And this is especially true when kissing a woman. To be successful when kissing a woman, your timing has to be just right, and you can’t expect it to happen all by itself.

Instead, you must be the one to take action and manufacture the right context, behaving in a way that makes her really want to kiss you. So that by the time you lean in to kiss her, she will already be thinking about it, and it won’t be a total surprise. As a result, kissing will feel like a very natural ‘next step’ in your time together. Make the right context and eventually, everything will flow smoothly.

2) Leadership

The woman expects you to always take the lead and be in control in the relationship. Yet, do not get the wrong idea by dominating or overpowering her. She only wants you to be the one to decide and initiate the kissing part.

Therefore, be sure you don’t withdraw or hesitate once you’ve made the decision to kiss. Because if you do, she might think you’re weak and it will probably ruin your chances with her.

3) State of Mind

As a guy, when kissing a girl, do not make a big deal out of it in your mind (otherwise you’ll start acting strange and unnatural). Because if you do make a big deal of kissing a girl, she’ll start feeling uneasy and it will spoil any attraction she’s feeling for you.

That’s why, when kissing a girl, just remain calm and casual about the whole situation. When kissing, do not make a big deal out of it. Instead, make it appear as something normal when two people are dating. After kissing each other, always remember to keep the conversation flowing, and don’t act strange.

Keep in mind that girls want you to be the leader, that is why you need to stay calm, chilled and cool when you spend time together.

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4) Expectation

When kissing a girl, you must always EXPECT that she wants to kiss you. Having doubts of the outcome of the kiss is highly discouraged as this would only kill the mood.

By thinking positively, and expecting the outcome you want, your behavior will help make her feel comfortable with the whole situation.

5) Technique

Keep these techniques in mind the next time you’re on a date and want to kiss a girl:

First, before kissing her, try to build up physical contact with her. It can be through sitting side-by-side, holding hands, your arms on her shoulder – anything really – but see to it that she is comfortable with the physical contact before you kiss her. With the right kind of physical contact beforehand, kissing her will be easy.

Next, try to catch her looking from your eyes down to your lips while you are talking. And return the favor by looking at her eyes down to her lips when she is also talking to you too. Chances are, if you see her glancing at your lips, she wanta to kiss you too.

The next thing to do is when you are about to kiss a girl, is to pull away when your lips have touched and then look her in the eyes and smile. Having this kind of little tease makes a girl excited and she’ll look forward to kissing you even more.

Finally, have a light first kiss without using your tongue. Keep the anticipation in her by pulling away before she’s had enough.

6) Remain Normal

After the kiss, go back to being normal so that she will feel comfortable. By keeping things light and normal, you can continue talking and having fun. This will help keep her guessing about when the next kiss will take place, and she’ll enjoy it even more.

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