Do you know that feeling when you are out on a date with a girl and suddenly the feeling changes and you know you need to take things in a more physical direction, but you didn’t know how to kiss her in the right way or were nervous of blowing it?

This is a fairly common problem that most men will have to work through sooner or later.  Actually, I used to suffer from the same problem.  I would be able to get women to go out with me, but I could never seal the deal when it came time to take things physical.

First, if you are getting girls to date you and you think there might be something romantic there, then you are a lot farther along than a lot of men.  You simply need to know how to kiss a girl.

The real issue is in your mind. You might be thinking “How do I know for certain if she is attracted to me?” or “What if she rejects me?”.

None of this really matters.

There are no proven means to know if a woman is in to you.

Instead of second-guessing yourself, just find out if she is the kind of girl you want in your life or not.

So you have to kiss her at a decent time like at the end of a date. After you get some experience with this you will just know that it is time to kiss. The situation will become thick and you will instinctively know it is time to kiss.

As you go in to kiss her, she will react in one of two ways.

First, the two of you will make out and engage in all sorts of saucy fun.

Or second, she turns you down. If this happens, you should be grateful!  You just discovered that you do not need to waste any more time with this girl and can put your time to better use on other girls.

Simply say something cool such as, “Hey you can’t blame a guy for trying. ” or “Take it as a compliment. “  Then finish up the date fast. Treat her like she is just a friend and don’t let the situation turn weird.

From there, everything is in her hands. If she decides that she made the wrong choice, then leave it to her to call you. But let her initiate the first move. You, on the other hand, will be out spending time with other girls that are interested in you.

Here is a personal example of how to kiss a woman.

Last summer, I met up with a woman that I was really eager to go out with. Once every so often, you cross paths with a girl that just entirely stuns you. She was one of those girls.

I was just passing through town, so I took her out to lunch at my favorite restaurant. She invited me up to her apartment afterward to show me some art she was working on. We had a conversation and lounged on her sofa.

Then everything got quiet.

I knew I had to kiss her. I didn’t have any idea what would happen, but I went with it anyway. I gave the moment some time to linger, then I said, “I really want to kiss you.”  Then I leaned and kissed the girl.

There was a little inital hesitation, but soon she just relaxed into it. Stay in control of the situation and don’t let up at the first sign of resistance. She will let you know if she doesn’t want to kiss. But be prepared for a little initial hesitation at first.

You should really stay on top of things while the two of you are making out. A lot of women will try to do what they are used to the first few times you make out. Be direct with your kissing and she will let go and adopt your style.

After that, I gazed into her eyes and told her “You have no idea how long I’ve wanted to do that. “  She seemed to like that and I proceeded to have a fun weekend with her.

So that is how you can kiss a woman the right way. Yes, it can be hard to put it all on the line and risk rejection, but that’s part of the fun.

If you liked this article, please also check out Guide to Kissing Girls, How to Flirt with Women, and Turning On Women

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