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Personal lubes are specialised liquids that are used , during intimate acts to reduce friction between the penis, vagina, other body parts and even sex toys. When considering a personal lubricant, would you know what to look for when making a purchase? If not, read on…

Lubrication has been used for centuries during sex play and intercourse. There are many references to the use of oils (such as olive and coconut) recorded many centuries ago. The most recent personal ‘lubes’ were originally derived from surgical lubricants designed for use during medical procedures – now they are also used frequently to provide lubrication during sex play.

Personal lubricants can be used to increase pleasure and reduce pain during sexual activity and may be used for lubricating the penis or vagina and a sex toy such as a rabbit vibrator or a waterproof vibrator.

Personal lubricants are particularly useful for intercourse when the receiving partner experiences dryness. It is usually sufficient to apply a drop of lubricant to the vaginal entrance and, if applicable, the penis being inserted.

Nowadays certain lubricants come with additions such as spermicides and overall lubes come in a variety of formats. There are also water-based lubricants that are water-soluble and are the most commonly used on the market.

Due to their long-lasting effect, older women who – as they age – may suffer from vaginal dryness favour oil-based lubricants. A good option for them would be to try silicone-based lubricants which  unique merits  when it comes to dryness . Silicon based lubricants  do not absorb into the skin, instead the stay on the surface to provide a long-lasting glide.

Please note though that not all silicone-based lubricants are certified condom and latex safe so you are advised to check the label and use as directed. Silicone-based lubricants are not recommended for use with sex toys that are silicone-based. The lubricants dissolve the surface of the toys, making them sticky and causing their material to disintegrate.

There are also specialised lubricants that are formulated specifically to cause physiological or physical changes to the area applied; these include lubricants that are warming and cause a heating sensation in the skin. There are also ‘tingly’ lubricants that increase blood flow to the regions in which they are applied, thus creating a fuller erection of the penis or clitoris; usually these solutions contain vasodilators to increase blood flow after application.

Finally, there are flavoured lubricants that come in a variety of tastes from strawberry to watermelon.

When you buy a personal lubricant, ensure that the solution must be pure and non-toxic as lubricants are easily absorbed by the body – in fact, they’re absorbed more easily than food and beverages are digested because they are soaked in directly via the skin without the benefit of being filtered through the liver and kidneys and thus, it is important to make sure that what you purchase is safe.

One useful thing to understand is that, when it comes to relationship skills, women are experts, and master practitioners compared to men.   As we shall see, women are already highly evolved in the area of relationships.  Women have a huge contribution to make to males by sharing their “innate” wisdom and abilities with the opposite sex.  Get Marriage Guidance here.

Women have a couple of advantages when it comes to relationships.  They are connected to feminine energy, which is about affinity, closeness, relationship.  And, girls are raised much differently than boys, which tells us a lot.

Young girls play house.  They play with dolls.  This is a very important point.  Around the world in most all cultures girls play with dolls.

What’s the big deal?  So what that girls play with dolls?  What’s this have to do with feminine energy and relationship?  Well, playing with dolls is playing at nurturing.  You cuddle the doll, you empathize, you communicate with doll.  You actually practice and play at caring for someone other than yourself. 

This is a vital gender distinction.  Boys are playing with toy guns.  Girls are playing at nurturing and connection and relationship.  These are high feminine energies. You can get more How To Get Love Help here.

Also, girls have imaginary tea parties.  They play house.  These games are also examples of the High Feminine moving through them.  At a tea party what do girls do?

They are talking and communicating and bonding.  Bonding through communication is an important relationship skill.  Girls grow up practicing relationship skills.  Boys grow up playing “I shot you, you’re dead!”

The lesson right in front of us is that women have a lot of relationship skills.  If you are a woman, use your innate knowledge.  Train your mate to connect and bond and nurture.  If you are a man, understand that women know a lot about relationships that you may not.  Learn from them.  You will both benefit.  You can get more How To Get help on fixing relationship problems here.

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Best Selling Author, writes… …

I get asked questions about how to find love , the kind of love that lasts. I thought I’d share some of the frequently asked questions and the Universal Law of Attraction model answer.

1. I’m just about to give up on love. I’m in my mid-40’s. I’m afraid my time has passed.

If you can desire it, you can achieve it. Find out what belief you have, what story you’re telling yourself that’s not true and make it your business to shift that belief.

If you’ve been asking and it’s not been forthcoming, there’s only one reason. When you ask, and it’s not coming, you have a dominant belief or vibration about it being difficult. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. Look for whatever that limiting belief is and work with a coach to soften and shift that belief. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.

2. How can I know that I’m in the allowing mode? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. Build your belief muscles by pretending how wonderful it will be when your love shows up. Practice what it feels like to be in love. One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Every day, several times per day.

By the feeling state, I mean engaging all of the senses by imagining what it will be like when … … the love of your life comes to stay … you plan a fun weekend getaway for her … you giggle at the inside jokes you both share … you play games in the car on a long ride etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your vibration into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.

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