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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach , writes… …

Maybe you have heard of the ‘Bucket of Crab’ mentality. You know the kind of mindset that says “if I cannot have it, neither can you.” It is a form of invalidating someone else’s success by pulling them down to their inadequacy. It sometimes gets expressed by a friend or family member who does not approve of or doesn’t want you striving for a greater achievement or going beyond things that are usually the norm for a culture. Everyone’s been there.

It is the same in a tribal mentality. The tribe is used to serve and keep the culture in a sustained state of relative safety. Each member has an explicitly defined and extremely important role and function. If you wanted to go beyond (as is our very nature) you literally risked the safety of the tribe. You’re taught: “I cannot expand past what the tribe teaches, otherwise I would be cast out and experience certain death”. You’d be exiled and not given food or water and without another tribe for many miles.

However, you were designed to create. Your inherent nature is to go beyond, express, want, and manifest. Then go for another fun thing or dream to fulfill. I read that prior to reaching five years of age, they have been told the word ‘No’ over sixty thousand times! It seems that our nature and our cultural values are in conflict with each other.

It is no wonder conflicting beliefs, critical inner dialogue and fear of success haunt us most of the time. It has been battered into our programming. The psychological phenomena is known as cognitive dissonance. It’s like static from your head when you have many conflicting thoughts at the same time. This dissonance gets uncomfortable and wants a solution. It gets solved in one of two methods. Either by falling back on old, known beliefs, or by allowing yourself to let go of the old to strive for a new level. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you completely change your experience with expert life coaching.

It’s no wonder with the programming we have adopted that it can feel so hard to create any effective change. You see, it is not your fault. Do not feel bad and heap more negative judgements on yourself. You are not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are incredibly rewarding and fulfilling beyond your wildest dreams! Think of a partner who has every quality you have ever desired in a lover.

It is not your fault, but you owe it to yourself to grab your power back. You’ve always had the ability to choose who you are and control that. Your mind is attractive. And even more powerfully, your mental monologue in conjunction with emotion are creative and attractive. Stare the inhibiting programs in the face and boldly declare another possibility for yourself. You were meant to thrive and create. You have the confirmation by the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful as a result of the discovery of the Law of Attraction.

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …

Valentine’s Day draws out the romantic in many of us. At the very least, it’s a day that we’d LIKE to have the romantic brought out in us. Whether you are in a relationship or spending this Valentine’s Day alone, when Valentine’s Day comes to mind don’t you remember the silly little cupid cards we would send around to fellow children in school or the cards we created in class for our Moms?

Other memories and reminders we have about Valentine’s Day and what it means to be in a relationship or not can leave us feeling feel good or bad, depending on what our relationship status is. Unfortunately, the majority of what feelings we experience, no matter what our relationship status is is placed in our minds by the repetitive thinking that has been ‘out there’ in the collective consciousness.

Don’t pay attention to what they are saying. Don’t pay attention if it doesn’t uplift and empower you. You are perfect just the way you are.

If you desire a relationship and you aren’t in one, great! You have the opportunity to clarify what you desire. Now you’re in a perfect place to begin to create a relationship from a renewed ‌initial point.

If you are in a relationship and you aren’t very happy with the way it’s going, fine. Now you can better understand what you DO want in a loving relationship, based on the contrast you are currently dealing with. Get a free Relationship Coaching session today, no strings attached!

Valentine’s Day, whether you are coupled or not, can be a day where you celebrate the romance that’s going to arrive! But, you have to be proactive in this. You’re the person who gets to say and has the creative control of what you want in your relationship. A Relationship Coach can help you get clear on what you want and help you achieve the relationship of a lifetime!

Here is where many of us fall down on the job. We are waiting for the circumstances to change out there. We are waiting for him to take charge. We are hoping that if we give him enough hints, he will take one and finally get into gear. WRONG. Don’t do this. That is letting yourself be at the effect, rather than the cause of your life. You make the decisions. All you have to do is make a gentle request, to your current spouse or lover or to the Universe. Next, you’ll have to step out of the way. You need to let go of the how, the what, and the when of what you want. Attaching yourself to the outcome is essentially resisting what you desire. You cannot say “Come in” with a hand pushing the door shut and expect it to enter. Maybe that’s easier said than done. But that’s why life coaching exists for those of us who need to get clarity of why we are failing to get what we want and then assist us in aligning with what we do so it may manifest. If you want to get a head-start on attracting the love of your dreams, you can get great coaching from a Law of Attraction Coach. Get your free consultation today!

It comes down to three steps. Ask, Align, and Allow. Simple, right? Not necessarily easy. Ask yourself “What could be available to me in a loving, aligned, co-creative partnership?” “What would I be capable of in my life if I had a mutual, loving relationship”? Think Big! Now begin to live in the vibration of what your life would look like and feel like if you were experiencing that currently. Use your creativity – remember what you did so naturally when you were a kid?

I’m continuously truly moved when I think of all of the amazing miracles I have attracted by way of manifesting my beloved husband. A little over 4 years ago, I was one of the people who had more unhappy endings to relationships than I’d care to admit. Then, I took this Attraction stuff seriously. I did the play/work. I removed my barriers to love, got aligned and rapidly created the love of my dreams.

This Valentine’s Day, this year, I hope you are as blessed as I am in your relationship. I know you deserve it. By the way, a relationship is an ongoing mutual effort, as is life. I wish you a happy life, true love and perfect creation.

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