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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …

How does one define Intentional Dating? Wouldn’t you like to know how it works?

Aren’t you bored of wading through one date after another to find Mr. or Ms. Right? Does the idea of the Dating Game cause you to you run for shelter?

You are most likely not engaging in the dating game just for the fun of it. Put another way, it is not a game or something to do for fun for you. You’re probably looking for a meaningful connection with another individual who shares your values. A person who can share good talks, fun activities and match up on a number of shared interests.

It doesn’t matter if you have just cut off a long term relationship or are simply bored of browsing the online dating sites, the time has come for you to practice Intentional Dating. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Using an unbiased listener to talk to will help you move off old patterns much more quickly.

Imagine if I said I could explain to you how to go about clarifying your desires and intentions prior to wading through the muck and mire of the dating scene?

Your thoughts create your reality – so wouldn’t you desire to understand what’s truly behind those limiting beliefs that cause you to continue unsuccessfully doing dates like the proverbial ‘revolving door,’ or keep you sitting in front of the TV on Saturday nights, instead of sending you out there shaking it up with reality? Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationship Attraction, and is not hard to grasp.

Let’s try getting to the source of the problem, manifesting an easy-going game around dating and then acquire the result you’re after — a really fun and loving relationship?

Does any of this sound good to you? Of course it does!

First, let’s define the word GAME…

1. Game – An amusement or pastime.

2. Game – A competitive organized action using skills, chance, or endurance involving two or more people who engage in the game with a code of rules, either for their own pleasure or for that of spectators.

The latter definition generalizes the way many of us feel about dating. But, if it’s not fun, something is out of alignment. You can manifest your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and sky-rocket your level of creative potential!

For a lot of people, the latter definition has properties that strip the FUN directly from the pursuit of dating. These properties are:

Competition, Skill, Chance, Endurance and Rules. These are definite fun-suckers!

Strangely enough, these are the qualities to AVOID when going on dates.

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …

Coming from the perspective of the Law of Attraction, the essence of what you resonate is attracted or brought right back to you. If that is so, (which it is) doesn’t it makes sense to get dressed with a smile before you leave the house? It turns into a question of practicing the traits of self-confidence; achieving clarity about that which you desire, the capability to acquire it, realizing you are capable of having what you want, and being naturally aware that your goal is always in perfect order.

To be in the conscious attracting dating mode, you need to energetically dress for happiness. To win the dating scene, you need to keep in mind that it is your choice. You chose it, so choose it to be what you desire. Now you’re in the mode of going forth with confidence. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely helpful for Relationship Attraction, and it’s not difficult to grasp.

It would be a good practice to script what you want as an outcome for any date. Create a small summary of an already perfect date. Phrase your summation as though the date already happened and you’re quite pleased with the result. If you do not have anyone to go on a date with, write a perfect outcome from a trip to the library or coffee shop. You’re creating your entire life through your beliefs and your emotions, so why not become creative and meaningful about it. You might pleasantly surprise yourself. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and sky-rocket your level of creative potential!

Your enjoyment of life is directly related to how you perceive each event, situation, or outcome. It is not always a simple process to realize that how we look at a given situation is what causes it to be good or bad. Truly empower yourself by taking 100% responsibility for your joy and self-expression. Nobody else has the power to cause you to feel bad or good, for that matter. It is perpetually an inside job. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Using an unbiased listener to check in with can help you move away from old patterns much faster.

Remember, dating is simply a game. Relationships are a game. We play to have fun, to explore and expand our nature. Make sure your games are for fun, not to win. Do this and you will always have a perfect experience. I hope you have many fun adventures!

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach , writes… …

Maybe you have heard of the ‘Bucket of Crab’ mentality. You know the kind of mindset that says “if I cannot have it, neither can you.” It is a form of invalidating someone else’s success by pulling them down to their inadequacy. It sometimes gets expressed by a friend or family member who does not approve of or doesn’t want you striving for a greater achievement or going beyond things that are usually the norm for a culture. Everyone’s been there.

It is the same in a tribal mentality. The tribe is used to serve and keep the culture in a sustained state of relative safety. Each member has an explicitly defined and extremely important role and function. If you wanted to go beyond (as is our very nature) you literally risked the safety of the tribe. You’re taught: “I cannot expand past what the tribe teaches, otherwise I would be cast out and experience certain death”. You’d be exiled and not given food or water and without another tribe for many miles.

However, you were designed to create. Your inherent nature is to go beyond, express, want, and manifest. Then go for another fun thing or dream to fulfill. I read that prior to reaching five years of age, they have been told the word ‘No’ over sixty thousand times! It seems that our nature and our cultural values are in conflict with each other.

It is no wonder conflicting beliefs, critical inner dialogue and fear of success haunt us most of the time. It has been battered into our programming. The psychological phenomena is known as cognitive dissonance. It’s like static from your head when you have many conflicting thoughts at the same time. This dissonance gets uncomfortable and wants a solution. It gets solved in one of two methods. Either by falling back on old, known beliefs, or by allowing yourself to let go of the old to strive for a new level. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you completely change your experience with expert life coaching.

It’s no wonder with the programming we have adopted that it can feel so hard to create any effective change. You see, it is not your fault. Do not feel bad and heap more negative judgements on yourself. You are not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are incredibly rewarding and fulfilling beyond your wildest dreams! Think of a partner who has every quality you have ever desired in a lover.

It is not your fault, but you owe it to yourself to grab your power back. You’ve always had the ability to choose who you are and control that. Your mind is attractive. And even more powerfully, your mental monologue in conjunction with emotion are creative and attractive. Stare the inhibiting programs in the face and boldly declare another possibility for yourself. You were meant to thrive and create. You have the confirmation by the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful as a result of the discovery of the Law of Attraction.