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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …

Five Things To Stay Away From When Dating.

1. Competitive activity. A Date isn’t the time to compare yourself, your Ex-, your achievements, with his or hers.

2. Skill. Wanting to prove how good you are at being an enjoyable partner is too much work and it will show.

3. Chance. Recall that you wanted to be on this date. In the end, chance isn’t a factor.

4. Endurance. A date is not a contest to find out who will outlast the other in being entertaining and amusing.

5. Rules. Stone-set rules become the end for new possibilities.

Five Practices to Engage in While on a Date.

1. Play. Though these might sound simple, I will bet a lot of you don’t look at dating as a playful exercise. Remember a time when you were the innocent child playing in the sand? How perfect was that? No place to go, nothing to prove. Simply muddy fun! Look for ways to go into your date with having fun as a first priority. Even if your date is a serious type. Make it your game to look for fun. You don’t need to see him or her in the future if they can’t be easy-going and have fun. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly helpful for Relationship Attraction, and is not difficult to understand.

2. Laugh. A cousin of Play, laughing is the easiest infectious way to release joy. Prior to going on any date, especially a first date, tell yourself that you’ll meaningfully search for reasons to feel good and laugh. Smile a lot. At the waitress or waiter, at the host. Or put on a grin for no reason.

3. Listen. This is one of the most important ways to build a relationship with your date. Intentive listening means when you shut off the voices in your head and tune in to what the person on the other side of the table is saying. Of course, the critic in your head may be desiring to chime in for many reasons. You do not like the way he eats his soup. She’s always playing with her hair. Things like that can be distractions. Simply notice yourself being distracted and bring yourself back. Again, you don’t have to see them again if you do not desire to. This is an important practice, however, and it’s a building block for intimacy. You will want to use this practice in your extended relationship, so why not get your practice in now. Just so you know, you do not need to listen exclusively in the dating realm. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and increase your level of creative potential!

4. Eye Contact. Don’t simply make eye contact and bob your head. Engage in deep listening whilst maintaining eye contact. Practicing this is a wonderful display of your own generosity. And I can assure you, your generosity will return to you. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Having an unbiased listener to talk to can help you move off outdated patterns much more quickly.

5. Communicate. When it is your time to talk, strive for clarity and being heard. As you have given your time to your date, desire the same. You have not interrupted him or her while he or she has been talking. If an interruption happens, ask for the same manners. You can be polite and kind about it without causing it to be a problem. Simply kindly ask for what you want. Feeling confident in this takes a lot of pressure off your date. By doing this your date firmly knows what you prefer.

It does not matter if you’re 25 or 75 dating – simply like life – if approached as a fun game, one in which there are no losers, your date will go much more smoothly for everyone.

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …

Five Things To Stay Away From When Dating.

1. Competitive activity. A Date isn’t the time to compare yourself, your Ex-, your achievements, with his or hers.

2. Skill. Wanting to prove how good you are at being an enjoyable partner is too much work and it will show.

3. Chance. Recall that you wanted to be on this date. In the end, chance isn’t a factor.

4. Endurance. A date is not a contest to find out who will outlast the other in being entertaining and amusing.

5. Rules. Stone-set rules become the end for new possibilities.

Five Practices to Engage in While on a Date.

1. Play. Though these might sound simple, I will bet a lot of you don’t look at dating as a playful exercise. Remember a time when you were the innocent child playing in the sand? How perfect was that? No place to go, nothing to prove. Simply muddy fun! Look for ways to go into your date with having fun as a first priority. Even if your date is a serious type. Make it your game to look for fun. You don’t need to see him or her in the future if they can’t be easy-going and have fun. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly helpful for Relationship Attraction, and is not difficult to understand.

2. Laugh. A cousin of Play, laughing is the easiest infectious way to release joy. Prior to going on any date, especially a first date, tell yourself that you’ll meaningfully search for reasons to feel good and laugh. Smile a lot. At the waitress or waiter, at the host. Or put on a grin for no reason.

3. Listen. This is one of the most important ways to build a relationship with your date. Intentive listening means when you shut off the voices in your head and tune in to what the person on the other side of the table is saying. Of course, the critic in your head may be desiring to chime in for many reasons. You do not like the way he eats his soup. She’s always playing with her hair. Things like that can be distractions. Simply notice yourself being distracted and bring yourself back. Again, you don’t have to see them again if you do not desire to. This is an important practice, however, and it’s a building block for intimacy. You will want to use this practice in your extended relationship, so why not get your practice in now. Just so you know, you do not need to listen exclusively in the dating realm. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and increase your level of creative potential!

4. Eye Contact. Don’t simply make eye contact and bob your head. Engage in deep listening whilst maintaining eye contact. Practicing this is a wonderful display of your own generosity. And I can assure you, your generosity will return to you. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Having an unbiased listener to talk to can help you move off outdated patterns much more quickly.

5. Communicate. When it is your time to talk, strive for clarity and being heard. As you have given your time to your date, desire the same. You have not interrupted him or her while he or she has been talking. If an interruption happens, ask for the same manners. You can be polite and kind about it without causing it to be a problem. Simply kindly ask for what you want. Feeling confident in this takes a lot of pressure off your date. By doing this your date firmly knows what you prefer.

It does not matter if you’re 25 or 75 dating – simply like life – if approached as a fun game, one in which there are no losers, your date will go much more smoothly for everyone.

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …

Valentine’s Day draws out the romantic in many of us. At the very least, it’s a day that we’d LIKE to have the romantic brought out in us. Whether you are in a relationship or spending this Valentine’s Day alone, when Valentine’s Day comes to mind don’t you remember the silly little cupid cards we would send around to fellow children in school or the cards we created in class for our Moms?

Other memories and reminders we have about Valentine’s Day and what it means to be in a relationship or not can leave us feeling feel good or bad, depending on what our relationship status is. Unfortunately, the majority of what feelings we experience, no matter what our relationship status is is placed in our minds by the repetitive thinking that has been ‘out there’ in the collective consciousness.

Don’t pay attention to what they are saying. Don’t pay attention if it doesn’t uplift and empower you. You are perfect just the way you are.

If you desire a relationship and you aren’t in one, great! You have the opportunity to clarify what you desire. Now you’re in a perfect place to begin to create a relationship from a renewed ‌initial point.

If you are in a relationship and you aren’t very happy with the way it’s going, fine. Now you can better understand what you DO want in a loving relationship, based on the contrast you are currently dealing with. Get a free Relationship Coaching session today, no strings attached!

Valentine’s Day, whether you are coupled or not, can be a day where you celebrate the romance that’s going to arrive! But, you have to be proactive in this. You’re the person who gets to say and has the creative control of what you want in your relationship. A Relationship Coach can help you get clear on what you want and help you achieve the relationship of a lifetime!

Here is where many of us fall down on the job. We are waiting for the circumstances to change out there. We are waiting for him to take charge. We are hoping that if we give him enough hints, he will take one and finally get into gear. WRONG. Don’t do this. That is letting yourself be at the effect, rather than the cause of your life. You make the decisions. All you have to do is make a gentle request, to your current spouse or lover or to the Universe. Next, you’ll have to step out of the way. You need to let go of the how, the what, and the when of what you want. Attaching yourself to the outcome is essentially resisting what you desire. You cannot say “Come in” with a hand pushing the door shut and expect it to enter. Maybe that’s easier said than done. But that’s why life coaching exists for those of us who need to get clarity of why we are failing to get what we want and then assist us in aligning with what we do so it may manifest. If you want to get a head-start on attracting the love of your dreams, you can get great coaching from a Law of Attraction Coach. Get your free consultation today!

It comes down to three steps. Ask, Align, and Allow. Simple, right? Not necessarily easy. Ask yourself “What could be available to me in a loving, aligned, co-creative partnership?” “What would I be capable of in my life if I had a mutual, loving relationship”? Think Big! Now begin to live in the vibration of what your life would look like and feel like if you were experiencing that currently. Use your creativity – remember what you did so naturally when you were a kid?

I’m continuously truly moved when I think of all of the amazing miracles I have attracted by way of manifesting my beloved husband. A little over 4 years ago, I was one of the people who had more unhappy endings to relationships than I’d care to admit. Then, I took this Attraction stuff seriously. I did the play/work. I removed my barriers to love, got aligned and rapidly created the love of my dreams.

This Valentine’s Day, this year, I hope you are as blessed as I am in your relationship. I know you deserve it. By the way, a relationship is an ongoing mutual effort, as is life. I wish you a happy life, true love and perfect creation.

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