Honestly, if you think you can get your ex back, your’re probably doing all
the stupid things we are programmed to do and you don’t have a chance. Human
nature has made us babbling idiots when it comes to relationships. We are fundamentally insecure
jealous, blaming fools who as soon as something goes wrong in the
relationship, resort to spying, prying and acting like the idiots we are. Good
relationships are built on trust and mutual respect. So why as soon as
our ground shakes we turn into just the opposite?

If you think you can get your ex back, then relax and act like someone that
he or she really wants to be with. Focus on the goal of getting back together
and avoid the many mistakes we are prone to make. You should not simply jump into things.
The best way is to play hard to get, be cool, which is probably what your ex will best
respond to anyway.

Usually when you break up with your ex, or he or she breaks up with you,
there is a level of missing one another and a desire to make amends.
This is especially true following a longer term relationship. But there are
other emotions that come into play like past regrets. If you are wondering
if my ex wants to get back with me, odds are that your ex may be thinking the
same thing for the their own reasons. You can use these facts to your advantage if
you know how.

Many of us take this on by ourselves, thinking we’re smart enough to accomplish it alone.
Wrong. We are already emotionally hurt and to a degree unstable. There is little possibility we can
act wisely without thinking our goal through and forming a plan to achieve it.

So if you think you can get your ex back alone, more power to you. If you want to succeed, we can help. Read this book and give yourself a chance. Oh, when you succeed, all the happiness to you.

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Okay, your ex girlfriend broke up with you.  You now realize what you had and you miss her and you really want a second chance.  You want to get her back and show her how much you love and enjoy her.  You can learn more about making up with your ex boyfriend here.

How then can you get a second chance with your ex girlfriend?  The answer is that you have to know the main reason why you broke up.  That will determine how you try to get her back.

There are two main reasons for breaking up that we’ll look at here.  The first is that you wronged your girlfriend in some way.  Perhaps you cheated on her or were too controlling and she got fed up.

Another main reason relationships end is that she isn’t that into you anymore.  She was into you at first, but then maybe she didn’t feel appreciated or got bored or felt that you weren’t the guy she wanted to spend the future with.  “Relationship Drift” happened and she lost interest.

So if you understand why she left you, then you’ll know which approach to use to get her back.  Let’s say you cheated on your ex girlfriend.  You wronged her.  Then the approach to use is to make a Smart Apology.  This is a particular kind of apology that is emotionally powerful and can begin to repair the damage you caused by wronging her.  You can learn more about how to get your ex back specifics here.

A smart apology has six or seven steps to it.  You don’t even apologize til after the 3rd or 4th step.  First off, you own up to what you did that hurt her.  Then you let her get things off her chest, you let her talk and yell and vent as she sees fit to let her hurt feelings get released.  In both of these steps, you don’t argue or justify or explain yourself.  You don’t say “it didn’t mean anything.”

If you can do those two things before you apologize, you are halfway home to restoring her trust and making her feel heard and understood.  Too many guys just keep saying they are sorry til they are blue in the face and it makes no difference.   A Smart Apology will impact your ex girlfriend emotionally.

What if she left because she isn’t into you anymore?  Relationship drift?  Then you need to follow a different approach, as an apology isn’t the answer.  You can find out more about this in a free course here.  Getting your ex back involves a lot of relationship intelligence, but this is a good way to start the process.  Get your free course on making up with your ex boyfriend here.

You can Save Your Relationship

No matter how bad it seems now

You’ve heard it over and overr… “Relationships are tough”. “Love hurts”. “Love is blind”. Blah, blah, blah, blah blah… Open your eyes, human…

The first truth about human relationships is that we are all idiots, who even if given a Life GPS, if one existed,
couldn’t find our way through a day by ourselves. Well, maybe not all of us, but certainly I was one. We’ve learned NOT to use logic
constantly listen to loser friends and people we don’t even know
I even heard someone calling a radio station for advice! IDIOTS!
We feel the need to talk to anyone who will listen, especially if we will hear  what we want to hear and let us place blame
away from ourselves and flood ourselves with sympathty as we drown in our own sorrow.
How pathetic is that?

Isn’t it time to stop being so self-centered and realize that, duh, it DOES take 2 to tango! Now there is a resource that I learned to help us.

My parents made the mold for strong relationships. When my Dad died at the age of 83 they were married for 56 years. Wow! 56 years
with the same partner. Think of it. That is TRUE success. By the way, as one of four children, I agree to the fact
our family is strong. They were not only successful in their relationship, but also great parents to the four of us.

Well as much as my parents made the mold, we broke it. Seventy-five percent of us divorced. Even in the US the average is only 50%!
I not only broke the mold, I totally
obliterated it. Why? This is why I am writing this to you. I’m one of the idiots who doesn’t know enough to learn about saving a relationship
and would rather find the fast way out, only to fail again. Yep, I’m in my fourth marraige. BUT, guess what? I AM NOT AN IDIOT ANYMORE!

Life is like business. Actually business is like life. Is that the same? You need Focus, Measurement of success, adfjustment
measure again and constantly hone your course. Both take work and attention and if left on their own will typically fail. For us stupid
humans it’s easier to rationalize failure than to achieve success. So how do we change that?

I can tell you about everything I learned, but by the time I finish, you will take 56 years. Besides I’m
the definition of failed relationships. What I will tell you is about a resource I came across The Magic of Making Up, I wish I had in my twenties. I wouldn’t have taken most of my life to learn.
 

Find out more about Making Up here.