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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach , writes… …

Maybe you have heard of the ‘Bucket of Crab’ mentality. You know the kind of mindset that says “if I cannot have it, neither can you.” It is a form of invalidating someone else’s success by pulling them down to their inadequacy. It sometimes gets expressed by a friend or family member who does not approve of or doesn’t want you striving for a greater achievement or going beyond things that are usually the norm for a culture. Everyone’s been there.

It is the same in a tribal mentality. The tribe is used to serve and keep the culture in a sustained state of relative safety. Each member has an explicitly defined and extremely important role and function. If you wanted to go beyond (as is our very nature) you literally risked the safety of the tribe. You’re taught: “I cannot expand past what the tribe teaches, otherwise I would be cast out and experience certain death”. You’d be exiled and not given food or water and without another tribe for many miles.

However, you were designed to create. Your inherent nature is to go beyond, express, want, and manifest. Then go for another fun thing or dream to fulfill. I read that prior to reaching five years of age, they have been told the word ‘No’ over sixty thousand times! It seems that our nature and our cultural values are in conflict with each other.

It is no wonder conflicting beliefs, critical inner dialogue and fear of success haunt us most of the time. It has been battered into our programming. The psychological phenomena is known as cognitive dissonance. It’s like static from your head when you have many conflicting thoughts at the same time. This dissonance gets uncomfortable and wants a solution. It gets solved in one of two methods. Either by falling back on old, known beliefs, or by allowing yourself to let go of the old to strive for a new level. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you completely change your experience with expert life coaching.

It’s no wonder with the programming we have adopted that it can feel so hard to create any effective change. You see, it is not your fault. Do not feel bad and heap more negative judgements on yourself. You are not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are incredibly rewarding and fulfilling beyond your wildest dreams! Think of a partner who has every quality you have ever desired in a lover.

It is not your fault, but you owe it to yourself to grab your power back. You’ve always had the ability to choose who you are and control that. Your mind is attractive. And even more powerfully, your mental monologue in conjunction with emotion are creative and attractive. Stare the inhibiting programs in the face and boldly declare another possibility for yourself. You were meant to thrive and create. You have the confirmation by the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful as a result of the discovery of the Law of Attraction.