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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

Life Coaching for people with self-confidence or self-esteem issues is very helpful in addressing this following question. Women seem to be plagued the most from trust, abandonment and lack of feelings of being worthy problems. Life Coaching for Women is one solution to solve this problem in relationship coaching. Anita asks: “Are some people just meant to be alone”? Anita, since you responded to our survey concerning relationships and the Law of Attraction, I’m going to assume you’ve considering creating a relationship for you. Many people decide to stay out of serious relationships. And that isn’t always the situation for someone who has given up because they’ve continuously failed in the past. Nothing at all is wrong with wanting to be without an intimate relationship. Your life can be fulfilled and wonderful with any choice you make.

As long as you know you’re choosing that rather than giving up out of frustration that you have not created the relationship of a lifetime. You can acquire it all in a relationship and in life.

If you could view yourself from the point of view of Source or your Inner Being, or the Universe, you would be viewing a wonderful, fantastic, brilliant, connected being. Then life starts to happen around us. Our well-meaning parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to guide us, teach us from birth what we need to look out for, stop us, caution us, and attempt to shelter us, effectively having us adhere to their fear and projections of insecurity rather than tuning in to our own guidance. OK, I will give you as simple new creatures we do need protection. Fine. But shortly following they understand to do things by themselves, self-empowerment should be part of the training for the small children.

Well-intentioned adults want to do the best thing so they teach, hold back, admonish, and instil fear in young ones to make them behave. This only underscores an underlying insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets instilled as a child.

Neurological research now explains to us that before we are 7, we are so open and available to receive, we have no filtering ability at all. We walk around in a sort of hypnagogic trance and become amazed with whatever happens to enter our life experience. It is not a wonder we have deeply ingrained, although misguided, thoughts about an imperfect nature. By the time we’re 6 years old, we’ve heard the word “NO” about 60,000 times. Look out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, don’t do that. The recurring message says you’re unworthy, you can’t trust you, you do not know what you’re doing, and so on.

Our parents and elders were indeed well-meaning. They simply wanted our well-being. But you can see how easily we have been taught away from our innate beauty and brilliance.

I recommend that you go easy on yourself and give yourself a chance. Firstly, it is not your fault. It’s not even the fault of your elders. They were programmed the same way as well. You can end this prevalence of lower sense of self-worth on yourself and those you care about. You deserve to have everything you wants.

Do your very best to give yourself love and self-acceptance. Treat yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe adores, Spirit adores you, and your Inner Being adores you. Why? Because you ARE lovable. And that IS the reality!